It's Been a Long Time

I know it has been a long time since I have posted. I just have gotten so busy with other things, I have my 3 Google Groups, Natural Goddesses, SoCal GS Lovers, and PSC/Paddlers of Southern California that I have to manage on a continuous basis. I also spend all my possible free time with my DaddyDom and Holly (my poly family) at Glen Eden. We have been with each other for three years now.

I will do my best to post more here.

Making a Ice Dildo

So it's one of those stinking-ass-hot summer days; the kind where the Sun is
literally cooking every surface it can reach and your body's pathetic attempts
to cool itself include sweating so profusely there is a miasmic cloud of
perspiration following you around. Of course, this is one of those times where
your suffering is not to be borne alone, because your significant other happens
to be over, perhaps visiting from some other, less hellish climate, perhaps
merely deigning to grace with his or her presence while away from the air
conditioned nirvana where they spend the balance of their time.

What to do? Showering in cold water helps for a time, true, but reintroducing your
cooled and calm naked form to the sauna that your house has become is a
punishment unfit for criminals. Swimming shares similar benefits and problems,
and includes the necessity of driving to the pool unless you've got a pool on
site.

Presuming that you and your significant other are intimate with one
another and that he/she is up for the challenge, I present a solution below.
Please note that I am not a doctor, nor licensed sex worker, therapist, or
counselor. I occasionally have clever ideas and like to share them. No lawsuits
please. Thank you.

Make an ice dildo! If you and your lover like using
ice, you can create your own sex toys made of ice just by using unlubricated
condoms, water, and some ingenuity.

Start with the cardboard tube from a
roll of paper towels. With a pair of scissors, cut the tube lengthwise. Roll the
tube to the diameter you'd like the finished dildo to be, and wrap tape around
it to hold it at that size. Take a condom and put it into the top of the
cardboard tube, and then overlap the top half inch or so of the condom around
the edge of the tube as shown:



You can use a lubricated or unlubricated condom. If you use a lubricated condom, avoid spermicidally lubricated ones, because the spermicidal lubricant can get funky when it freezes.

Carefully fill the condom to the top with water. Stand the tube upright in the freezer, and wait a few hours.

You can probably find all kinds of things to do to entertain
yourself while you're waiting.

In a few hours, the water will freeze.
Remove the tube from the freezer. Carefully lift the top edge of the condom from
around the tube and tie it in a knot to keep the water from leaking out as the
ice melts. Then cut the tape holding the tube closed and remove the ice
dildo.

When you're finished, the ice dildo should look like the one shown
below.



If you like, you can take extra steps to make a fancier
dildo by doing things to the cardboard tube before you place the condom in it.
For example, if you take thick cord and wrap it in a spiral on the inside of the
tube, the finished ice dildo will have a spiral ridge in it. If you take a small
sheet of bubble wrap cut to the same width as the inside circumference of the
tube and slide it into the tube before you put the condom in it, the finished
ice dildo will have a dimpled, textured surface.

Putting your toy inside your playmate

Obviously, you can ram your toy into your
playmate with reckless abandon and be assured of a reaction. However, most
people are happier with a slow, lingering advance than an aggressive
penetration by the coldest thing in the house, especially in a couple of
particular places. That being said, try these places and follow the ice with
your lips and tongue and fingers to keep everyone happy:

• Back of the neck
  
• Underside of the breast
  
• Nipples
  
• Inner thighs
  
• Labia
  
• Clitoris
  
• Scrotum
  
• Base of the penis
  
• Glans
  
• Top of the buttocks
  
• Underside of the buttocks
  
• Anus
  
• Lips
  
• Hairline
  
• There are only so many orifices on the human body, and the two which are
  probably springing to your overheated imagination are the vagina and the anus.
  These are always exciting, and can be very pleasurable. If your toy is
  getting melty and drippy, you can try insertion into these places, but have
  lube handy and apply liberally if they're any resistance whatsoever. Cold +
  friction = pain. Pain ? fun.
  
• Consider also the mouth, which can be even more delightful when your
  playmate is blindfolded. Trace the lips slowly, kiss softly to warm,
  then tease again with the ice. Slip the toy gently into their mouth,
  alternate with your tongue. Suck on the ice for a moment, then slide your
  tongue between their lips, keeping your tongue rigid. Slowly move your
  tongue more and more as warmth returns and introduce your tongue and the toy
  at the same time. Don't try to get your playmate to deep-throat the toy
  unless they're really into that. The cold will numb sensation and can mask
  bruising of delicate internal tissues.
  
• Obviously, don't move a toy that's been in the anus to the vagina or the mouth. Butts, generally, are not the cleanest things in the universe.
  
• Remember, you can use a fresh glove, cot or condom with lube on your toy and change it for every orifice to keep things clean and safe.
  

Some considerations

• Remember, always run the ice dildo under cool water before you use it. This
  removes any frost from its surface and starts the outer edge of the ice melting.
  You don't want to use ice internally untill it has started to melt and has a
  thin layer of water on its surface, or the ice may freeze to your skin.
  
• These finished products are not approved by the FDA. They lack any
  handholds, retrieval strings, safety catches, warranties, or security
  features. Be careful not to lose them in the excitement of your creative
  success. Of course, they will melt eventually, but unless you've removed the
  outer, latex mold...you did remove the mold, right? Go back and remove the
  mold, you silly lust-monkey...any melting will be contained within the
  tightly-tied latex mold. Result: a water-filled container stuck somewhere
  embarrassing. So be careful. Please.
  
• Do not keep any ice-based toy inside any living thing for more than a few
  seconds at a time. Then stop for a moment and tease them with the toy or a
  contrasting sensation (think about alternating your hot mouth or sweaty,
  excited hands with this refreshingly cold toy at regular intervals). The
  idea is to cool off your lover, not to numb them or induce frostbite.
  Imagine how upset you and your lover will be if they require amputation of
  their sex organs because you were a little too enthusiastic. If you or your
  lover lose the ability to feel what's going at any time, STOP. If the
  sensation moves from a pleasant cool tingle to a deep, hot burn, STOP. If
  you can't feel the tips of your fingers while manipulating the toy, STOP.
  Use your head and not your crotch to determine safe practices.
  
• Do not reuse frozen toys. It's just kinda grody.
  
• Want your ice cubes or ice dildos to look better? If you boil water and then
  let it cool before freezing it, the ice will be transparent rather than
  cloudy.
  Cloudiness in ice cubes is the result of dissolved air in the water, which is displaced and forms thousands of tiny bubbles when the water freezes. Boiling the water drives out the dissolved air, which produces ice that is transparent when it freezes.

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Erotic whispers to my lover

These poems are for Ivan,
(my lover, my poetic inspiration,
my best friend and Master of my heart.)


I n d u l g e n t

Indulge in all of the senses of pleasure.

Touch my body with your strong manly hands.
Feel the softness of my skin, the fullness of my breasts.
Rub your thumbs over my hard erect nipples.
Slide your hands up my legs to the inside of my thighs.
Feel them quiver with excitement.

Smell the delicate sweetness of my skin,
the sweet aroma of my soft hair.
Inhale the intoxicating scent of
my desire as it wafts up to you.
Take it in, remember it.

Taste my lips, my moist passion.
Relish my sweet skin,
savor the honey between my legs.

Hear the sounds I make as you explore my body.
My moans of great pleasure as you explore each crevice,
each hole.
My gasps of air as you carve trails on and within my body.

See me as you bring me to the edge of ecstasy.
Watch my body explode into waves of pleasure,
shaking and writhing,
lossing control under your touch.

Indulge in the senses of pleasure, indulge in me.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Secrets

He says to me, "Feel"
Give me access to your heart
And "speak" to me in quiet whispers
Of secrets never told

Go to the hidden corners of your soul
And tell me what you've hidden there
The secrets you think too ugly to reveal
I will not punish because you dare to feel

As he speaks, I listen softly
Then travel to my secret place
And, look upon the shelves of fear
At emotions never shared And hunger never sated
All living tombed in silence

I look into his eyes and see
The power to release me
Salvation
Redemption
Shining brightly like the moon on a darkened night

Walking slowly towards a shelf
I remove a secret no one knows
Shyly, my face blushes red and I hesitate
My hand trembling with fear

Embolden by his desire to know
I give myself
Raw and unedited
To him

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Used Possession

Don't treat me like a china doll
Or a precious piece of art,
I am not a delicate object
I will not fall apart.

Don't touch me as if I were a rose
I will not crumble in your hands,
So forget romantic gestures
For I have other plans.

I want it hot and I want it heavy
I like it hard and tough,
So treat me like a piece of dirt
And I cannot get enough.

I like it when you grab my hair
Kiss and squeeze me hard,
Ram you tongue into my mouth
And catch me off my guard.

Forcefully pin me to the wall
Restrain me with your strength,
Penetrate me with your cock
And let me feel your length.

Masterfully push me on the bed
Fuck me with aggression,
Bite my breasts and spread my thighs
I am your possession.

You see I don't need hearts and flowers
And all that other stuff,
Just make sure you leave your mark
Because I like it rough.

Happy Holidays

'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house Not a creature was stirring, not even my spouse; The paddles were hung in the cupboard with care, In hopes that her bottom soon would be bare;

The children were nestled at grandma's in bed, While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads; And mamma in her nightie, and I in my cap, Had just settled down for a long discipline chat,

When out of her mouth there arose such a clatter, I sat on the bed as she sassed "Hey what's the matter?" I pulled her across my knee in a flash, Pulled up her nightie to bare her cute ass.

Her bottom was white as the new-fallen snow But would soon give way to the luster of a healthy red glow, When, what to my wondering eyes should appear, But a large wooden paddle, to redden her rear,

With long hard swings, both lively and quick, She knew in a moment it won't be a picnic. In rapid succession the paddling came, I shouted, and called out her no-nos by name;

"Now, SASSING! Now, LYING! And STAYING UP LATE!" I paddled her hard and continued her fate. She begged and she pleaded and I knew she would bawl! Her bottom, her thighs I covered them all!

As I held her down tight I listened to her cry, When the paddle met her, there were tears in her eyes, So I spanked and I spanked and the paddle it flew, With the lecture of love that came with it too.

The wiggling and kicking of each little foot The paddle would soon make her little ass cook. As I drew back the paddle, again it was sound, Down on her bottom it came with a bound.

She was beautiful and sexy, from her head to her foot, But her soul was all tarnished like ashes and soot; A bundle of guilt she had on her back, I took them away with each paddle whack.

Her eyes -- how they twinkled! With tears that weren't merry! Her cheeks were red as roses, her thighs like a cherry! Her beautiful hair was drawn up in a bow, And her bottom was now not as white as the snow;

I let her get up and put the paddle on the shelf, I kissed her and I love her more then myself; A wink of my eye and a twist of my head, Soon let her know it was now time for bed;

I spoke not a word, but went straight to work, I tucked her in bed; then turned with a jerk, And laying my finger aside of my nose, And thinking inside, "She's as red as a rose";

Now discipline is not as easy as a whistle, And it won't go away like the down of a thistle. Now to all of you who love spankings so dear, "MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A RED REAR